I'm scared to do anything but DM anymore and it's because of a sexist dm
So this starts of like alot of horror stories where I was really excited to start playing as a PC for once after being just a DM for a while.
The important characters for this story are the Dm, me a female human sorcerer, a human Paladin, a dwarf paladin(DM's girlfriend) and a kobold sorcerer.
So the big thing is that I'm a Male but I wanted to change up my character style a bit and play a female who didn't take shit from anyone, she was gonna be a total badass. Then we started with me and the kobold being dangled over a cauldron waiting an hour for the party to arrive just to play even though we both had the spells to free ourselves and run away. So the party finds us and one of them cuts us down so we can join an encounter against two ogres. After the battle I try to search the area for any hidden areas and am asked to roll a perception check, rolled a 18 and the dm told me nothing stands out, the dwarf checks and rolled a 10 and somehow she found a chest with a +2 greatsword in it. I figured maybe he just has a separate table for finding lots that's fair. Now hears where the fun begins we leave the cave that me and the kobold were tied up in and come across a mansion in the middle of the woods, we're all like well obviously that's important we should go in. We meet a new player cause he started a little later and he's a human paladin, he decides he's going to be funny and try to seduce my character and the dm says if he rolls a high enough persuasion I have to go along with it, which kind of annoyed me cause my character is asexual so she doesn't really want advances of any kind. Luckily he failed and that would be that, or so I thought he then attempted to slap my characters ass to which she responded by knocking him on his ass. Then the dwarf decided to attempt the same thing (the dwarf is a Male despite being played by a girl) and also got their ass knocked away because the kobold stepped in to help me. They laughed it off and then we continued through the mansion to figure out why it was here in the middle of nowhere. Well after we find out it was transported there by magic we start to head toward a nearby village to figure out if they know anything about it, we investigate a tavern cause it's always where dms put the best rumors. And again now the DM is making NPCs hit on me and I'm getting really uncomfortable about it and politely tell them no. The rest of the time spent in town goes basically like that and then we get to a dungeon. We explore a bit and finally find some cultists who had helped transport the mansion, at this point the DM initiated the equivalent of a cutscene where he forced my character to seduce the cultists to get answers about their plans going into insane detail about what she's doing to them. Needless to say I walked out on the session that night as well as the kobold PC, later on several people including my girlfriend told me that he was going around calling me a sexist for not acting the way a woman character should in a game so he had to take action into his own hands, even his girlfriend was telling me it made no sense to fight people just because they wanna seduce you by getting a little handsy, and all I can say is that I stormed up to him and told him that if he wants to DM that's fine but I'm going to quit your campaign and go back to my own. He was offended that I thought I could just leave his grand story of turning my character into a sex fiend.
Needless to say after that the kobold sorcerer's player dropped out and asked if he could join up mine and now two years later I'm still dming for the same group of five and we're all having a blast while that DM constantly begs me if he can sit in to see why my players never leave.
https://redd.it/eplfdq
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So this starts of like alot of horror stories where I was really excited to start playing as a PC for once after being just a DM for a while.
The important characters for this story are the Dm, me a female human sorcerer, a human Paladin, a dwarf paladin(DM's girlfriend) and a kobold sorcerer.
So the big thing is that I'm a Male but I wanted to change up my character style a bit and play a female who didn't take shit from anyone, she was gonna be a total badass. Then we started with me and the kobold being dangled over a cauldron waiting an hour for the party to arrive just to play even though we both had the spells to free ourselves and run away. So the party finds us and one of them cuts us down so we can join an encounter against two ogres. After the battle I try to search the area for any hidden areas and am asked to roll a perception check, rolled a 18 and the dm told me nothing stands out, the dwarf checks and rolled a 10 and somehow she found a chest with a +2 greatsword in it. I figured maybe he just has a separate table for finding lots that's fair. Now hears where the fun begins we leave the cave that me and the kobold were tied up in and come across a mansion in the middle of the woods, we're all like well obviously that's important we should go in. We meet a new player cause he started a little later and he's a human paladin, he decides he's going to be funny and try to seduce my character and the dm says if he rolls a high enough persuasion I have to go along with it, which kind of annoyed me cause my character is asexual so she doesn't really want advances of any kind. Luckily he failed and that would be that, or so I thought he then attempted to slap my characters ass to which she responded by knocking him on his ass. Then the dwarf decided to attempt the same thing (the dwarf is a Male despite being played by a girl) and also got their ass knocked away because the kobold stepped in to help me. They laughed it off and then we continued through the mansion to figure out why it was here in the middle of nowhere. Well after we find out it was transported there by magic we start to head toward a nearby village to figure out if they know anything about it, we investigate a tavern cause it's always where dms put the best rumors. And again now the DM is making NPCs hit on me and I'm getting really uncomfortable about it and politely tell them no. The rest of the time spent in town goes basically like that and then we get to a dungeon. We explore a bit and finally find some cultists who had helped transport the mansion, at this point the DM initiated the equivalent of a cutscene where he forced my character to seduce the cultists to get answers about their plans going into insane detail about what she's doing to them. Needless to say I walked out on the session that night as well as the kobold PC, later on several people including my girlfriend told me that he was going around calling me a sexist for not acting the way a woman character should in a game so he had to take action into his own hands, even his girlfriend was telling me it made no sense to fight people just because they wanna seduce you by getting a little handsy, and all I can say is that I stormed up to him and told him that if he wants to DM that's fine but I'm going to quit your campaign and go back to my own. He was offended that I thought I could just leave his grand story of turning my character into a sex fiend.
Needless to say after that the kobold sorcerer's player dropped out and asked if he could join up mine and now two years later I'm still dming for the same group of five and we're all having a blast while that DM constantly begs me if he can sit in to see why my players never leave.
https://redd.it/eplfdq
@r_dndgreentext