Without pain and struggle you wouldn't have strength and character. Without negative people you might not appreciate the positive people in your life. Without that rejection or break up you might not have been guided to something better. Without that person saying you couldn't do it, you might no have had the motivation to do it. Without sadness and depression you might lack the compassion and caring you have today. Without painful endings you may not have been led to that great new beginning. There is a reason and a purpose in everything, and a true blessing in everything if you can open your eyes to see it and open your heart to know it. Don't ask why me. Don't say I didn't deserve this. Ask how can I use this? How can this make me stronger, better, wiser? Use the pain in your life aa fuel to take yoy wherever you need to go.