In every breakup story, there's a scene that both parties don't want to admit, the scene that made the "eternal" relationship hypothesis in to "fucked up" reality. They both wanted to appear like the victim when they destroy each other in a way only the two can understand. You won't hear them saying, “s/he left me cos I made some mistakes.” All you hear is, “s/he left me after everything I've done for him/her.” Then they tell you all they want is to be loved back as if you don't loved them. It's hard to be emotional, it sucks to notice every swing in motions, it's hard when you meet someone who would you guess to be so good and end up by being a trash.

But go for it, even in your broken pieces of heart. Go for someone you truly love, tho I should tell you something: real love is rear as oxygen in the space.