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He who hates you in this life does not matter but who likes you matters. A king rejects a woman overnight and she stops being queen. The same king likes a village girl and in a instant she becomes queen. Esther 1-9.

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The Statue of David (Michelangelo)

When Michelangelo sculpted the famous statue of David 🪨✨, nobles and townsfolk flocked to marvel at the masterpiece 👀. Among them was a cardinal with his entourage ⛪️. The statue was magnificent! Everyone praised its perfection 🙌.

But the cardinal, accustomed to giving advice 🗣, felt compelled to comment. Turning to Michelangelo, he said:

— "I like your work. But... you know! That spot, the shoulder... It seems to me it could use a little chiseling! 🔨"

What was Michelangelo to do? Arguing with the cardinal—a self-important, arrogant man 😤—was not an option, especially since the cardinal’s favor influenced everything in the land 🌍. Yet Michelangelo couldn't compromise the harmony and beauty of his creation 🎨💎.

So, taking a clever approach 🧠, Michelangelo picked up his hammer in one hand and a chisel in the other, along with a small handful of marble dust 🪨. He climbed the ladder 🪜, pretended to strike the statue, and discreetly let the marble dust trickle down 💫.

Afterward, he descended, inspected the statue 🔍, and asked the cardinal:

— "Is it better now?"

The cardinal squinted, studied the statue carefully 🤔, and declared:

— "Ah! Now it's perfect! 👌👏"😊

😂😉
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🗣 For those who don’t know what goals to set for the year, here’s a short list

💸 Create a financial cushion for 3 - 6 months

💪 Take up any sport or achieve a certain result in your sport

🛫 Try an additional form of income not related to hiring

📚 Read 12 self-development books of your choice. One for each month.

🚌 Go on a trip. Not necessarily just once, it's up to you

👌 Learn any 3 new skills

🎨 Try a new hobby

Now you have no excuses, choose goals that you like and go ahead 🔥

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Patience

One day, a millionaire was asked:

- What is the secret to your success?

- Patience, my friend.

- But I can think of many areas where this doesn't work, - said the other person.

- For example? - asked the millionaire.

- Well, for instance, carrying water in a sieve, no matter how long you do it, you still won't manage!

- You're wrong, - replied the millionaire, - You just have to take the sieve and wait for winter! ❄️

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Love for Fish 🐟💕

When asked, "Why do you eat fish?" a young man replied, "Because I love fish."
To that, I said, "Oh, you don't love fish! That's why you caught it from the water, killed it, and cooked it. Don't tell me you love fish. You love yourself. You love the taste of fish. You caught it, killed it, and cooked it."

Much of what we call love is actually more like this "love for fish."
Look at a couple of young lovers. The boy and girl fall in love with each other. What does that mean? It means that he sees in his partner the one who, in his view, can satisfy all his physical and emotional needs. In the girl's view, her partner is the love of her life. But each is only concerned with their own needs. They don’t truly love each other. The partner becomes just a tool to satisfy needs. Much of what we call love is just "love for fish."
One philosopher said, "People are very mistaken when they think they give something because they love. But here’s the truth — you only love those to whom you give something." The point is: by giving something to you, I am giving a part of myself. To love is, first and foremost, to give, not to receive. 💖


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Learn to honour everyone ahead of you,they didn't get there by luck.

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Things that will make you re-think your life.

-Your choices define you more than your circumstances ever will.
-Happiness is a journey,not a destination.
-The greatest thing in life is not taking any risk at all.
-The more confident and independent you become,the more intimidating you will be to those who are not.
-Your material wealth won't make you a better or happier person.
-Your achievements and success won't matter on your deathbed.
-Your talent means nothing without consistent effort and practice.
-Nobody cares how difficult your life is,and you're the author of your life's story.
-Investing in yourself isn't selfish.it's the most worthwhile thing you can do.
-It's not what happens,it's how react that matters.
Thanks for reading.

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Life wisdom
Never accept the definition of life from others,It is your life,define it yourself. 💯💪💪.

2025 rules:

-Avoid porn.Avoid anything that will trigger you to watch it.
-Exercise three to four times every week.
-Read 10 pages of either a self improvement book or a history book.
-Anger is not your friend.control it before it controls you.
-Always endeavor to stay neat 80% of the time.
-Never become a clown to impress anybody.most especially women.
-work before fun.
-smoking harms more than it pleases.Desist from it.
-Forgive but never forget the lesson learned.
-Have a vision,Have a purpose.Fight towards it.
-Do not allow yourself to be disrespected.
-Do not joke with your financial life.

"Here's to a fresh start filled with success and adventure."wishing you health,wealth and happiness in 2025."Let's welcome the year with open hearts and boundless energy."Everyday is a chance to start a new-HAPPY NEW YEAR.

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Reality of life in simple term
-The worst fight is between what you know is right and what you feel like doing.
-people start disliking you when they can't make you do what they want.
-Dont think that loud people are strong and quet people are weak.
-Feelings change all the time,but decisions you make last forever.
-most people don't really want you to be your best self,they want you to be what's best for them.
-It's not all about how the big your house is,it's about how happy your family is at home.
-Don't trust or love too much,because that too much can hurt you a lot.
-Sometimes you have to keep busy so you don't have time to feel sad or upset.

DEEP MESSAGES THAT LIFE SEND TO YOU!

1.Some times it's better to choose peace over being right and getting into arguments.

2.Being kind to others doesn't cost anything,and it can make someone's day better.

3.we can learn alot by listening and being quiet sometimes.

4.The kind of people we attract in our lives is often a reflection of the kind of person we are.

5.sometimes,our feelings and pain go away with time.

6.Trust is important in relationships because without it,we can't be open and loving.

7.It's important to have a soft heart and be caring,but also set boundaries to protect ourselves.

8.It's important to be patient and stick to our plans,even when things get tough.

9.We should never look down on others unless we're helping them or lifting them up.

10.It's important to say what we mean and honest with our words.

11.It's better to deal with our problems before they start affecting our happiness.

12.Sometimes the best advice is the one we ignore because it seems difficult,but it might be worthy considering.

Humans are never satisfied with what they have!You will realize that you have lost the moon while counting the stars.

Attitudes you need to stop when you are married

When married ,consider letting go of this attitudes.
1.possessiveness:Trust and respect boundaries.

2.Competition:Focus on teamwork and mutual support.

3.Critism:Practice constructive feedback and empathy.

4.Comparison:Appreciate your unique relationship.

5.Selfishness:Cultivate compromise and understanding.

6.Dishonest
7.Pride
8.Unforgiveness
9.Lack of accountability
10.Emotional unavailability:prioritize emotional intimacy.
11.Disrespect:Treat each other with kindness and respect.
12.Conditional love:Love unconditionally.
13.Unrealistic expectations:Communicate and set realistic goals.

1.Defensiveness:Listen actively and respond thoughtfully.
2.Passive-aggressiveness:Address issues directly.

1.Blame shifting:Take ownership of mistakes.
2.Control:Respect each other autonomy.
3.Resentment:Address issues before they escalate.
4.Lack of gratitude:Cultivate appreciation.

Replacing this attitudes with positive ones can strengthen your marriage.

Positive attitude to cultivate:
1.Empathy and understanding
2.Open communication
3.Mutual respect
4.Trust and loyalty
5.Compromise and flexibility
6.Forgiveness and letting go
7.Emotional intelligent
8.Teamwork and cooperation
9.Gratitude and appreciation
10.Unconditional love

Resources:
1.Marriage counseling or therapy
2.Relationship self-help book
3.Online forums and communities
4.Support groups for married couples
5.Personal growth and self improvement resources

For those who don't find theirs yet,may the Almighty bless you with the right person.God bless us all.
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Point to note;
The world is harsh on men during their building phase especially if they are from humble family.Obirins treat them like social lepers,they are not accorded any level of respect by society.

Kings,treasure your little beginning and keep using it as a spring board to your success.

Practice delayed gratification,starve your distractions,avoid committed relationships,and keep building.

Make short and long term goals,make mistakes and learn from them.keep pushing and evaluating your progress every quarterly.

Avoid B2B midfielders when you get to the top.

Things mentally strong peop do;

.They move on.They don't waste time feeling sorry for themselves.
.They embrace change.They welcome challenges.
.They stay happy.They don't waste energy on things they can't control.
.They are kind,fare,and unafraid to speak up.
.They are willing to take calculated risks.
.They celebrate other people's success,they don't resent that success.
.They move forward and don't dwell on the past.
.They learn from other's mistake.
.They don't hesitate about taking responsibility.
.They create their own definition of success.

⭐Thank you for reading the article ✨

Signs of a loser:

1.Settling for far less than their potential.

2.Closed mind,Unwilling to change bad views.

3.Feeling sorry for themselves,playing the victim.

4.No passion or purpose in life.

5.Not learning new things.

6.wasting time on unimportant activities.

7.Burning bridges intead of building connections.

8.Being negative and complaining all the time.

9.Talking big but never following through.