My mother is dying, and he’s busy trying to get his dick wet
There you have it, folks; my husband. Been together 12 years, married 9. Had plenty of ups and downs, I stuck by him through his four years of dialysis and subsequent transplant and this is what comes of it. We’re long distance at the moment so he doesn’t even have to actually do anything to help. For the most part I’ve kept it together but this week I was extra stressed because mom is getting worse. It’s pancreatic cancer Stage 4 and I’m her primary caregiver. I freaked out last night because I got a text notification saying our credit card was blocked due to a suspicious transaction. It was a dating site. I asked him about it; no, wasn’t him. I was not 100% convinced. He called the bank and got back to me. Said he needs to think about the stress that I’m causing him in our relationship and will discuss it tomorrow. Total 180 from the days before where everything was fine. Couldn’t get rid of that nagging feeling. Went to said dating site and took a look around; wow, there he is. Seeking hookups or a relationship. Nice, trying to cheat on me while I’m going through one of the worst times in my life. I wish I had found this community a long time ago. Y’all are so kick ass here, I guess I’m posting to leech some strength. I’ve honestly ignored so many red flags - and advice from others - in the lead up to this, I feel ashamed. I’ve no idea where to go from here, I don’t even have the energy to deal with it right now. Part of me is upset but unsurprised (past red flags) and the other part is simply fuming and tempted to go scorched earth and expose him.
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