#Reflection #Relationship
As I grow older, I find myself constantly observing and learning. We all know that nobody is perfect, yet in the heat of an argument, we almost always lose our composure and become fixated on accusing the other. Have you ever wondered why it’s always the other person who seems to be at fault? Isn’t it strange that we tend to see ourselves as innocent in most situations?
Ask yourself: do you really want to make the relationship work, or are you just trying to satisfy your ego at the expense of the relationship’s well-being? Is it truly possible that you're 100% right, while your partner or friend is completely wrong? Are you claiming to be flawless, like an angel?
Why, even for a moment, can’t you just let it go? Or at least sit down and acknowledge that both parties might have contributed to the conflict? Before an argument begins, why not remind yourself that the goal should be to understand the issue and resolve it, rather than to point fingers? Wouldn't that mindset lead to more positive and happy outcomes?
You’re probably familiar with the famous saying, "Amallar niyyatlarga bog'liqdur" (Actions depend on intentions). After thinking about it for a while, I’ve come to the conclusion that the results of your actions often depend on your true intentions as well. For example, if you’re arguing about who is guilty and who isn’t, it’s highly likely that the outcome won’t be desirable because both you and the other person will be too focused on pointing out each other’s flaws instead of solving the issue.
My point is: wouldn’t it be much easier to simply let it go, admit that both of you have made mistakes, and move on without worrying about who was "more wrong" in the situation? Just think about it.
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Abdulboriy IELTS ⚡️
