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Hey guys I am 23 M I recently graduated like 4 months ago since being the first born and raised without a mom by a poor dad my goal life has always been to support my family..... Now that I am graduated it's that time, I tried to get a job ( I live in dire) and I couldn't find one ... After some time I found a job (unrelated to my field of study) the salary is bad (4500birr), but it's better than staying home cos i was loosing my mind worrying....... The salary is not enough to support my family so I have to have a side income, i had lots of cliche ideas like graphics design ( I learned a little bit of photoshop), crypto or forex .... I have a pc that I borrowed from a friend since it's an old pc doing graphics design is a slow and tiring process and I don't have any capital to invest or trade with ...... trying to learn crypto became overwhelming to me since I am an introvert too so I don't have a friend group that I could learn & work on crypto with ..... I am very worried I need to figure out ways I can make money guys please help me out what should I do?

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አልችልም፣ አልቻልኩም ደከመኝ ታከተኝ፣
የጭቅጭቅ ህይወት የእሮሮ ኑሮ፣
ላንቃዬን በጩኸት አዳክሞ አዳፍቶ፣ መተንፈስ አቃተኝ።

አልቻልኩም ላስረዳ የልቤን ደም እንባ፣ የልቤን እውነታ፣
ጆሮ ባይሰማኝም አይንም ባያየኝም አፌ ተንገላታ።

እጅህን ዘርጋልኝ ብለው ክርስቶስን፣
የኔን ምስኪን ፀሎት ይሰማኝ ይመስል፣
ራሴን ሰጥቼው ብጠብቅ በተስፋ፣
ምንም አላገኘው ጭንቀቴን ሚገፋ ።

እንድያውም ጨመረ ስቃዬ ተባዛ፣
ለጋ ትንሽ ነፍሴ ያላቅም ያለድሜው መጨነቅ አበዛ።
ገና በልጅነት በመከራ አድጌ በስቃይ ብዙአየሁ፣
ለስሙ ብኖርም ውስጤማ ተቀብሮ አመታትን ቆየው።

ለማንስ ምን ብዬ እንዴት ብዬ ላውጋው፣
የምያውቁኝ አያውቁት የውስጤን ያንጀቴን፣
ከወረቀት ውጪ አዳማጭ ማጣቴን፣
አይገባቸው ብዬ አልችልምን ይዤ ባራት ነጥብ ዘጋው።

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Is it okay to be unloved and unwanted by your parents and if you have that feeling is it okay

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I need your help. I’m a 23-year-old female, and this is my first time venting. I’ve always been afraid to open up and tend to keep my problems and pain inside. I live with my single mom, who works one job and is the sole income earner for our household. She always tells me that everything is fine, but I’ve seen her struggle a lot. I need money, at least for my UV fee and transportation expenses. Do you guys know any part-time jobs that don’t require any capital to start? Please, I really need your help. 🙏

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Selam endet nachu I'm 20F
Ene univ temari negn ena ke regular lela begon lela tmhrt jemerealew . Ena lesu kifya demo be term betam bzu new lezi bians yehone neger eyeserahu ye tmhrt kfyayen enkuan meshefen alebgn. Beteseboche betam techegrew new miastemrugn . Ena benatachu jimma mtnoru sra yalachu sewoch benatachu sra stugn ebakachu . Bezi huneta tmhrten meketel alchlm bemehal makome new . Ebakachu sra felgulegn benatachu balaye atlefu 🥹🙏

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Hi! This is an update for my vent last year. Life has been very good to me these past few months and I’m trying to give hope to other girls who may have went through the same thing. Starting off, my life changed when I met my best friend. I met her at campus and she was friendless too. She is a few years older and a lecturer. We bonded right away because she had a man she trusted use her and leave her too. You can’t imagine how relieved I felt crying in her arms, knowing how I’d never get affection from my mother again. I also graduated, which was a big milestone for me. I struggled getting a job for two or three months before I met the most wonderful man who made me believe in love from men for the first time. He is 10 years older than I am and when I told him everything that happened to me even about my intimate past with my former step dad he cried and hugged me tight and told me I deserved better and he’ll never let anything like that happen to me ever again. I tear about that day writing about it right now because it was a feeling like no other. He gave me a high end job in his company and even rented me a house which I pay for with my salary now. My life really has taken a better direction and all those years of anguish are finally over. For any woman out there who was raped, used or abandoned by a man, betrayed by their own family members, I am here to tell you to give life a chance and give love a chance too. There were so many times when I attempted suicide, contemplated doing drugs and isolating myself from everyone and everything. I had to live long enough to learn that there are good people and wonderful memories to be made. I’m finally having fun and healing my inner child. I’m glad I never gave my ear to those men who slut shamed me because I wasn’t a virgin. I finally know my worth and I’m telling you girls to know you’re valuable too. You just need to find an emotionally mature and empathic man. You don’t have to look for them, they’ll find you. To sum this up, thank you for all the positive comments on the last vent. I read them every time I need encouragement. You are also another example that good people exist. Wishing healing to all my broken sisters.

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im 20 f. so long story short there is this guy he's ma friend we went for hiking one day n he started flirting with n I flirt back uk I tot it was just for fun then he continued talking like that for abt a month n I have this trait I can't say no or stop idk Im more of a ppl pleaser n now he kinda into me but Im not n he thinks we're in r/ship mnamn ik it's ma fault gn I can't do this anymore so pls guys help me with wat to say to him...

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Am a 22M foreigner and so far fitting in hasn't been a problem coz m in an interactive environment (sch, am a 3rd year student) thou the language has been a problem buh ma Ethiopian friends pushing me at a reasonable pase ... ma problem has been getting a girlfriend... like a true kinda relationship ... cz most of these girls fall for the money or simply the stereotype that "foreigners have got money" which for my it's true I have enuff, I rent an apartment n sometimes stay at school premises ... problem is finding something REAL amean am open to going at any pase buh just need an Ethiopian girlfriend in whom I can find friendship and love simultaneously

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እንዴት ናችሁ

እርዳታችሁን ስለምፈልግ በ አማርኛ ግልፅ አድርጌ እፅፍላቹሀለው እና እባካችሁ ዶክተሮች ካላችሁ እንዲሁም እንደኔ አይነት the same case እምታውቁ እና መፍትሄ ምታውቁ ሰዋች ተባበሩኝ 😭


እና ችግሬ ምን መሰላችሁ እኔ 20 አመቴ ሲሆን እንዲሁም fresh  (የ መጀመሪያ አመት) ተማሪ ነኝ ከ ቅርብ ጊዜ ወዲህ ነገሮችን መርሳት ጀምሬለው መርሳት ስል ድሮም እረሳ ነበር ግን አሁን ብሶብኛል ድሮ ምረሳው like ያስቀመጥኩትን እቃ ምናምን ነበር አሁን ግን እራሴን፣ህልሜን፣ቤተሰቦቼን ባጭሩ በቃ በኔ ህይወት ውስጥ ትልቅ ቦታ ምሰጣቸውን ነገር በሙሉ እየረሳው ነው መርሳት ስል ግን እስከነ ጭራሹ ሳይሆን በቃ አለ አደል ድብዝዝ ያለ ነገር ነው የሚታየኝ እንዴት እንደማስረዳ እኔንጃ ግን በቃ አለ አደል የ አይምሮዬ ንቃት እንደ ድሮ አደለም እንደ ድሮ አደለም ብቻ ሳይሆን በቃ ሊጠፋ ሀይል እነደ ቀነሰ መብራት ነው i don't known how to explain ግን አለ አደል ትኩረቴ እና ጭንቅላቴን እሚቆጣጠረው አሁን ያለሁበት situation ነው that means ለምሳሌ እንደ ነገርኳችሁ የ ግቢ ተማሪ ነኝ last year remedial ነበርኩ እና ዘንድሮ fresh ነኝ እና ወደዋናው ነገር ስመለስላቹ አሁን ግቢ ከመጣው በሆል ስለ familyዋቼ ብዙ ነገር እየረሳው ነው like ከ ነሱ ጋር ሰለነበረኝ relation ከነሱ ጋር ስለነበረኝ ነገሮች like ስለ ነበሩን ቅርበት ስላሳለፍ ነዉ ነገሮች ሙሉ ለሙሉ መርሳት ሳይሆን ድብዝዝ ያሉ ነገሮች ናቸው ሚታየኝ even መልካቸን እራሱ ሳስብ ጥርት ያለ ነገረ አይታየኝም 🥺

እና አሁን አሁን አሁን ሳስበው ጭንቅላቴ ባላወኩት ሁኔታ ዙሪያዬ ካሉት ነገሮች ውጪ ነገሮችን እንዳላስብ፣ እነዳላይ ከሌክሎኛል እና እባካቹህ ሰለዚ ጉዳይ ምታውቁት ነገር ካለ መፍትሔ ንገሩኝ ወይም አምታውቁትን ሰው ጠይቁልኝ አባካችሁ😭 ለኔ ብዙ ነገር የሆኑልኝን ቤተሰቦቼን ጨርሼ ሳልረሳ እባካችሁ እርዱኝ ልጃችን ደረሰችልን ሲሉ ለነሱ መርዶ መሆን አልፈልግም ...ለማንም ምንም ብዬ አላውቅም ስለዚህ ጉዳይ ዙሪያዬ ያሉት መፍትሄ እንደሌላቸው i know ለዛ ዝም ማለትን መርጫለው ለነሱ ቢበዛ አቅፈው አይዞሽ ነገ አዲስ ቀን ነው ቢሉኝ ነው ብዬ ስላሰብኩ እስካሁን ዝም ብዬ ነበር እዚ ግን
ከ47k ሰው ውስጥ መፍተሄ ሚያቅ እና እኔ እህታቹን ሊተባበር ሚፈልግ ሰው አላጣም ብዬ ነው እንዳልተሳሳትኩ ተስፋ አደርጋለው




በቻላችሁት በሙሉ ከጎኔ ስለምትቆሙ እግዚአብሔር ያክብርልኝ በ ፀሎታችሁም አስቡኝ

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Hi family I'm 21M
I'm university student Ina Beka betam introvert negn Gn ...yehone sew ketemechegn or kewededku lerase hije anegagire guadegna laregew hula ichilalew
Ina mn meselachu yehone ye group aynet guadegninet aymechegnim Beka.....gibi lay degmo yihe yemaytaseb new betelay wendoch dorm  akababi.

Ine degmo ke dorm lijoch gar bzum aligbabam malete yene aynet type aydelum Beka wereyachew hulu negerachew kene gar fit ayaregim.

Ina yene guadegna lela dorm new beza lay betam bzu guadegnoch alut kenesu gar sikelakel betam new michenanekew Mnm destegna aydelehum...iwnet lemenager abzagnaw seat bichayen negn  gn yesew tiyake"" mnew zare bichahin?"" yemilew betam new miyasdebiregn😢

Idk lmn yerase guadegna magignet indalchalku Beka Ine mifeligew Ine isun bicha isum inen bicha yemil aynet guadegninet new.....How can I get this kind of friendship?

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I need to vent. So here’s the thing, I can’t seem to forget about this one guy and we’ve never even dated. This is what happened... there was this guy at my school and we went to the same school for about 7 years so you can say we pretty much grew up together. As we got older he started showing me signs that he likes me(he would draw heart shapes and give them to me and stuff, he would hug me every chance he gets, I mean it was pretty obvious) but I would ignore everything and act like I don’t see anything. After some time he actually wrote me a note saying “I really like you, how could you not see how much I like you from my actions? Anyways I like you and you’ll always be in my heart.” When I read that I was very happy, cause I was also starting to like him back. He makes me laugh like crazy(he’s so funny btw, very extrovert), he’s artistic(his drawings are stunning) he’s smart and in general he’s everything I want. But I am not the type of girl who tells guys that I like them so I ended up not saying anything even though I liked him. I pretended like nothing happened and so did he. The next year we both left that school and I haven’t seen him since, but I think about him everyday and I regret not saying anything to him, it just eats me alive. I should’ve told him that I like him back cause he deserves everything and more, and I miss him everyday. He holds a special place in my heart and I don’t think I would never get over him. Is he thinking about me as much as I’m thinking about him? But he’s a guy he probably has moved on already after all it has been years since we last saw each other (I’m in uni now)I just wish I could just see him one more time. What should I do to get over him guys?

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Seeing myself in the mirror right in front of me while holding the camera light for the photoshoot of that beautiful family was too hard. Feeling like homeless just because of the absence of one person in my family image shows me how ungrateful I am.
The craving to be kissed on my forehead between those big hands of him just after getting my daily goodbye kisses with those sweet wishes of hers makes me feel like the most አልጠግብ ባይ in the world. But here i am, missing him and wanting him badly which i wasn't supposed to be doing. The tears that are dropping down from my eyes sitting on the couch at the middle of the night in the living room while having the most adorable mom in the bedroom is the guilty that's killing me slowly.

Since I got no one to be talking about this to, Sorry if i bored you.

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Hi, this isn’t a vent more like a question. So am 23f still lives with parents but got my own well paying job. So am dating this guy almost a decade older than me. We’ve been together for more than a year on and off (another story) and he really wants kids and a family and staff soon.
Considering his age mnamn and am the kind of person who doesn’t really think about that often. He causally jokes mech nw mitweljilegn and I casually joke like I wouldn’t be able to take care of kids kebeteseb bet salweta and my mom is still taking care of me mnamn… u get it. And I take my contraception very very seriously.
And semonun we’ve been trying to cook from home a set up a whole kitchen (in his home) which I bought every single thing. He said he was too busy and lazy this days so I had to buy every yebeteka. And one night I asked him why he’s not helping and he said he’s been pressured in to it and there is a responsibility he is not quite ready for. Mind u it was his idea to set up a kitchen, the lets eat home more often but when it comes to actions suddenly pressured????
So finally last night I accidentally forgot my contraception and I wanted to buy a post pill. So I asked him for money(50birr) coz I didn’t bring any cash when going out at the time not because I didn’t wanna be for a 50birr pill but I simply didn’t bring a bag with me when he came to pick me up. And he said no and he wouldn’t pay for my post pill coz he wants kids… he knew it wasn’t the right time for us to be pregnant, I also rolled him previously that if I had a child it would be after am married, stable and a really high paying job for me and my kind and other responsible things but the just kept quite.
So I left bought my pill and paid with my phone. Took the pill right in front of him and asked him to take me back home and he did. Mind u I asked him repeatedly if he wants to talk about it reasonably and logically and if he really believed now is the right time to get pregnant for both of us he kept quiet that when I said I wanted to go home. And he did not call or text me ketilalnt jemiro. So did I do anything wrong? Kitchen supply megzat pressure nw kemil sew ga having a baby while not married or engaged and living with my parents??

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I want to die and go away forever

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23F

The more I grow up, the more I realize there are two types of love.." BEING IN LOVE " and " LOVING SOMEONE "

Being in love is a feeling that is controlled by the heart, not the mind. You can be in love with the wrong person..a killer, a bad person, someone struggling with addiction, or even your enemy. Your brain knows it's wrong, but your heart pushes you to be with that person.

On the other hand, loving someone is guided by the mind instead of the heart. It’s a feeling you can control..a love that you shape and direct the way you want it to be.

But In this complicated world, the kind of love that truly matters for a fulfilling life is loving someone rather than simply being in love.

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I just wanted to say i am sry i am such a toxic person who finds it good when others are down and be happy abt it, i feel threatened when others are doing good with their life and working and living i resent them internally i am a bitter person and a shitty friend that's the truth and i think i am pretty smart confident guess what it is all a lie, i am an insecure , toxic brat. Today we received maths exam paper and i did bad but the fact that u were bored with ur results made me feel like i won and i laughed out loud. Uk what makes me such a bitch was if u do that same thing i wld have hated u internally. I still kinda do, or do i want to be like u but can't idk what i want but i rly wish i cld become a good person and stop resenting others for their good behavior and be inspired by them instead. How did u guys beat this comparison and resentment cycle and found true confidence ?

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I'm 20 M
So I've gf and we both love each other betammmm. We've got 9 months in relation and 4 yrs of friendship.. But the thing is I'm almost 3yrs younger than her... and we both are afraid of what would be the response of our families when they know.. I want her to be ma future, my gurl, my wife uk... but not only the families but also other relatives or any other people are also could be issues.. ena endet nw lenkuakuam menchlew yesewun af uk esua demo endih aynet neger sensitive nat yilugnta mnamn... ena any one who have been through this kalachu pls yehone neger belugn

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Ok tbh i am not really sure how to start writing my vent. Because i have been disappointed by some Womens, yeah those who are Created by GOD to be our Companion and Helper.I am a Male in my past twenties. I have been in relationship and dating girls For a while. but for some reasons all of them didn't go well. And i keep Pondering and try to go back and evaluate myself about what was wrong with me. And i say to myself 'i am not that bad i just didn't like drama' yes please girls stop with your drama. Do we have to be so toxic inorder to handle your unending whirlpool. C'mon Just Let's Understand Eachother. We Men Are simple. Yes and i still don't hate women lol. ❤️

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HEY guys im 20 M and here is my problem , i broke up with my ex like 10 month ago and i dont see girls the same way like i broke up with her cause of my personal and i am all healed and was looking to relationship but womens are fucked up ong Many of them are vapid, self-indulgent, solipsistic, crass narcissists with a victim complex they use to bludgeon other into fixing their problems like a child throws a fit until it's parents change their diaper. and like i have more than 10 girls in my dm that are intrested and all my friends have friends with benefit or 3 gfs or some but me i can have one of em but uk i aint like that im a one women men , also as a human being lust is winning should i give up or stop searching

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hey guys makes the story short to be clear i will write in amhaic. ena alachew mibal family nw yalgn they support so many people bka yechgrew hulu ebet meto yalksal testot yehedall dse yelal kalew sew makafel egzer yewdewal but ene 1 amet hongn temrke sera kataw not sera matat but birr kalmekfele yetnesa bzu bota CV asgbche nbr kza ketensh sament bewala enetna eko kefla gebach yebalal be health nw graduate yaderkute yhone health center ke kefelku endmgba le abate tenagrew nbr but esu secrete argotal bebetu betam bzu tekemche depression west ke megbate yetnsa bka kefelulgn ena lejmer beye lemenkuwachew gn they said hatyat nw alugn hulum guwadgnoche gebto ene bchayen kerew btam lemenkuwachew gn bka they don give a shit for me i don no the reason am sure lela sew techegrku belo ebet meto beteyk awetetw endmisteu kzi yetensa i hate my family ,my self and stupid nighobors always asking' "sera jemrsh" the word is so painfull endene sera lelew wetat .family betam chewa adergogn nw yasadgn am 24 and still single i dont kiss anybody in my life and i am V but dont askmy id. ena btam deppresed kemhone yetnsa lela sewochn birr teyeke kefeye lemgbat asbyalew but i know no one can give me bc they know my family eyashofkubachew limesel yechelal. lela sera enkwan wetche endalfelge ke bet mewtat ayfkdlgnm wetche semels father hule yekotagnal i don know bet west askemetwegn mn liyargugn endasbu🥹 . 1 year without any work beka ebet west mekemt bcha i hate my self . ande bet west tekemten do u believe 2 month hongn abaten manager kakomku i hate him so much. ene yalhubt region bka kalsetek sera agegnalew malet heleme nw lza lmn endmnor rasu gera gebtognal bc of streess and deprssion i loss my witght am 40kg in 24yr that is so wired i know. ymr gn hatyat meseratu weys ye lijachewn ngr merdat nw kebadu? some time i will make them surpise by killling my self beye asebena enaten sayat bka sew athonm beye etewalw .ahun rasu eyalksu nw yestafkugn. God pls help me. God bless u all.

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