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COLD HARD TRUTH OF LIFE

"Success isn't the kind of thing that will be handed to us on a silver plater but the kind of thing we have to fight for that we have to earn with ever fiber of our being in this world no body cares about our excuses, circumstances or sub stories , the world is waiting for results not reasons why we can't deliver them.

l know that may sound harsh let me tell you something cold hard truth and the sooner you accept it the sooner you will start making real progress in your life we live in a world that full of no ways everybody got an opinion , reason , complain , why they are not  where they wanna be but we know what the people who are truly successful  the ones who are living their dreams they are not the ones making excuses they are the ones putting in the work.

Let me ask you something when was the last time you work so hard on something you forgot to eat? when was the last time  you are so focused on your goals that you lost track of time? if you can't remember then you are not working hard enough!

Don't get me wrong l am not saying we should work ourselves to death  but l am saying that  if we want an  extraordinary results we have got to put extraordinary efforts average efforts produce average results let's face the reality nobody ever changes world being an average."

Duck syndrome

Those suffering from "duck syndrome" are those who:

They always try to show a happy and happy image of themselves in the virtual space, while in the real world they face many problems and have many disturbances.

Duck syndrome has become an epidemic in the age of social networks.

how about

1. Tendency to pretend that everything is fine when it really isn't:

We travel just to take pictures, do weird things to make memories with friends, and buy things we don't need to get attention.

All this is to show that we deserve the likes and congratulations of others.

Where is the problem?

Over time, the more you focus on the surface, the more unresolved problems you have in real life.

Remember, you can fix a broken tooth with Photoshop, but what's the use when this broken tooth refuses to eat?

2. Compare your behind-the-scenes with others' highlights:

Seeing a short moment of other people's lives on Instagram, our minds quickly start to judge.

We think we lost the game of life because we don't have what others show in their highlights.

But real life is more complicated than what you see on the internet.

Behind every success there is failure.
And behind every exciting moment we have boring times.

But no one shares their failures, fights, and moments of boredom.

So don't feel held back by what you see in other people's lives.

Don't be a duck!
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