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Polygyny-Evidences!

16 Aug 2023, 20:00

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Forward from: Madrasatuna | مدرستنا
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته

Here it is ⤵️

بــســـم الــلــه الــرحــمــن الــرحـــيــم

All praise is due to Allāh. We praise Him. We seek His help and forgiveness. We seek refuge with Allāh from the evils of ourselves and from the wickedness of our own deeds. Whomever that Allāh guides, none can mislead him, and whomever He sends astray, none can guide. I bear witness that there is no deity worthy of worship but Allāh alone with no partner, and I bear witness that Muḥammad is His slave and Messenger.

To proceed:

The purpose of this channel (https://t.me/almanhajussalafi) is to clarify the Manhaj of the Salaf, invite others to it, and warn against whatever opposes it.

May Allāh grant us success.
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16 Aug 2023, 07:52

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A couple that wishes to have a successful relationship must understand each other’s needs. A husband must take into account that a woman’s needs and expectations are different than a man’s. Great intimacy can only be achieved if a woman finds a complete, fulfilling relationship. So what are women looking for in a marriage?

Women get married to find a special best friend. They want someone who will share their secrets, laugh and joke with them, love them, cherish them, adore them, be romantic with them, and make them feel beautiful and wanted. They want someone who will be attracted to them emotionally through their personality, and attracted to them physically through their bodies.

A woman wants a partner who will strive together with her through this life; laughing and rejoicing through the good times, and sticking by each other and supporting each other through the bad times.

She wants a man strong in his deen who can stand up and take the responsibility of the household, and help raise the children in accordance with Islam.

A woman wants her husband to be her friend, companion, and soul mate.

Any good husband must realize that a woman’s primary need is emotional. He must take into account the prophetic tradition “The best of you are those who are best to their wives,” [Sahih al-Bukhari], and then strive to be the best to his wife.

Men have been assigned the responsibility by Allāh to take care of their wives, and this entails treating them with love and respect, and striving to make them happy. If a husband can fulfil his wife's primary needs, not only will Allāh reward him, his wife will be content with him, and together the couple’s life will be more harmonious. Moreover, when a woman’s needs are fulfilled she will be more willing to fulfil her husband’s needs, بإذن الله.

The best way to satisfy a woman’s emotional needs is to listen to her and respond to her with compassion. By listening to her intently, with your undivided attention, and taking a genuine interest in what she has to say, she will feel loved, cherished and important. Realize that when she approaches you with her problems, she doesn’t necessarily want solutions, she just wants sympathy and understanding.
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The husbands these days are nice to others but rude to their wives, they dont know about the basic rights of their wives...

Speaking Kindly To The Wife And Having A Concern With Ones Appearance


❝Speaking kindly to the wife and Having a Concern with Ones Appearance in front of her: this is something which she likes in you just as you like in her.

Ibn Katheer [رحمه الله] said describing the condition of the Prophet [ﷺ] with his wives the Mothers of the believers whereby he said:

‘From the manners of the Prophet [ﷺ] was that he would have beautiful companionship and would always be joyful, he would be playful with his family and treat them affectionately, he would be generous in spending on them, he would make his wives laugh, he would even run a race with ‘Aeysha the mother of the believers to show love towards her.’ [Tafseer Ibn Katheer, (1/466)]

There is no doubt that hurting and victimisation by words and actions, having a frown and sulky face, scowling and frowning when one sees his wife, keeping away from her and inclining to spending time with other people NEGATES good companionship.

Qurtubi [رحمه الله] said about the meaning of the Ayaah:

﴿وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ﴾

«And live with them in kindness» [Nisa: 19]

'It means: to live with them with good companionship upon what Allaah has commanded with … and that is to fulfill her rights from the dowry and to spend upon her, not to frown in her face except if she has committed a sin, to be cheerful whilst speaking and not coarse and crude, or harsh-hearted, nor appearing to incline to other than her… Allaah [سبحانه و تعالى] commanded to have good companionship with women if a person takes the contract of marriage to associate with them and to show affection between them and companionship upon perfection; since this is calmer for the soul and wholesome and healthy for living.’ [Tafseer al-Qurtubi, (5/97)]

From what also negates good companionship is leaving off a concern with ones appearance and a good form.

Ibn Abbas [رضي الله عنه] said: ‘Indeed I love to beautify myself for my wife just as I love that she beautifies herself for me; this is because Allaah [عز و جل] said:

﴿وَلَهُنَّ مِثْلُ الَّذِي عَلَيْهِنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ﴾

«And they [women] have rights [over their husbands as regards living expenses, etc.] similar [to those of their husbands] over them [as regards obedience and respect, etc.] to what is reasonable» [Baqarah: 228]

So the beautification of men fluctuates according to their circumstances and ages; so they work to become fit and skilled, they should dress in clothing which is befitting. They should use perfume and cleansing of the mouth and use a Miswak etc to remove excess food between the teeth. He should remove that which clings to the body of bad smells and dirt, take off excess hair, trim fingernails, senior people should dye their hair, wearing a ring and other matters which fulfil the rights, so that she is pleased with this beautification and causes her to abstain from other men.❞
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15 Aug 2023, 23:27

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A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

Marriage is the ultimate journey of a lifetime and it is painful, humbling and hard, it is also a powerful and enriching journey.

When two imperfect people come together and remember their promise to each other the journey towards selflessness begins!

May Allah always keep our Marriages filled with lots of barakah, happiness and prosperity.

Aameen!
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14 Aug 2023, 03:41

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13 Aug 2023, 08:03

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Some people are married and living in peace, love and harmony yet the marriage is already a failed one. They have children age of 8 and above who are good in singing twinkle twinkle little stars, but can't even recite fatiha.

Marriage is not just living under the same roof together and making babies, marriage is an act of worship and it's not called successful until you allow the Qur'an and Sunnah to govern it, it's not called successful until the Deen is established in your children.

People run into marrying multiple wives because they have the money and they think polygany is just about feeding and being just to your wives. They place their concentration on that aspect and forget the rest of the obligatory responsibilities, so they give birth to 18 children with zero Islamic knowledge.

Many parents are/willbe the cause of their children’s misfortune and suffering in this world and the hereafter, because of their negligence and failure to raise their kids upon the deen. They encouraging and helping their children to pursue their whims and desires thinking that they are being kind to them when what they're actually doing is disgracing them.

Parent who have nothing but are able to teach their children Islam are better in the sight of Allah than a parent who have multiple wives and all they do is to feed and clothe their family. If you think of the causes of children’s misguidance and corruption, you will realise that it is mostly the fault of the parents and it's so sad. May Allah guide us and grant us a deep understanding of the Deen.

Allaahumustaan
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13 Aug 2023, 07:47

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Marriages will thrive on the ideals upon which they were founded. If two disbelievers marry and they honour and stay true to the ideals upon which they mutually agree to build the marriage on then the marriage will thrive blissfully. If two believers marry but don’t honour the ideals upon which the marriage was built then the marriage will crumble or stumble.

Just like everything in life, prayer has its place, then there are trials, but a large part of our existence on earth is directly linked to our efforts. So, maintaining human relationships such as marriage is highly dependent upon the two persons involved. If you present yourself as a pious person then the expectation will be that your ideals will be as your belief dictates. Problem starts when you shift the goal post midway. You are only pious on the outside but indoors you can’t be held by the dictates of your religion. You are an ‘ustadh’ but when it comes to providing for your family you are no different from the other men around. It will have been better if from the get go you were assumed to be just like every other man without raised expectations. Or when it comes to polygyny you abandon the red lines of Islām and embrace the cultural polygyny masqueraded as Islām.

Stay true to the ideals upon which the marriage was built, hoping that you both were plain and sincere at the beginning, and things should work out, all things being equal. If you are crazy, find someone either as crazy as you are, or someone that likes your kind of crazy and you will be good to go. This is why you will see a woman in the street with a recalcitrant behavior, and you wonder how any man puts up with her, then you discover she is happily married. They simply have an understanding and are staying true to it.
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13 Aug 2023, 07:32

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HUSBAND.

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم asked one of the companion's wives:

"Have you got a husband?"

She said: "Yes."

He asked: "How do you treat him?"

She replied: "I spare no pains in obeying him, except what I cannot do."

The Prophet then said: "Make sure that you obey him, because he is your Paradise or Hellfire" (Tirmidhi)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:

"If a woman dies while her husband was pleased with her, she will enter Paradise." (Tirmidhi)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:

"If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month (Ramadan), guards her chastity, and obeys her husband (always) she will enter Jannah." (Bukhari)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم was asked:

"Which of women is best?" He said: “The one who makes (her husband) happy when he looks at her, obeys him when he tells her to do something, and does not disobey him with regard to herself or her wealth in a way that he dislikes.” (Nasaai)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:

"If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anything other than Allah, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands. By the One in Whose hand is the soul of Muhammad, no woman will fulfil her duty towards her Lord unless she fulfils her duty towards her husband, and if he asks her for herself when she is sitting on a saddle, she should not refuse him." (Ibn Maajah)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:

"If Allah has blessed any of you with a good wife, He has helped him with half his Deen, so he should fear Allah with the other half." (Hakim)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:

“No woman annoys her husband but his wife among Al-Hoor Al-’Ayn says, ‘Do not annoy him! May Allah destroy you (Literally ‘Kill you’)! For he is just a temporary guest with you and soon he will leave you and join (come to) us‘.” (Ahmed, Tirmidhi, ibn Majah)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:

“There are three whose prayers will not be accepted and they will not ascend to heaven or even go beyond their heads: … a woman whose husband calls her at night and she refuses.” (Targhib wal-Tarhib)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:

“If a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses, and he stays angry with her all night, the angels will curse her until morning.” (Bukhari, Muslim)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said:

“Any woman who asked for a divorce for no reason, the fragrance of Paradise is forbidden to her.” (Tirmidhi, Abu Dawood, Ibn Maajah)

"Whether the husband wants to discipline his wife, or forgive her, or take another wife, or divorce her, this is all up to him to choose. Let the woman beware of incurring her husband’s wrath because this will lead to Allaah’s being angry with her."

"If a Man is married with a righteous wife, he will live a harmonious life even if he is poor" - Sh. Saleh Al-Fawzan

The blessings for a woman being a righteous wife and a man having the righteous wife is pleasure in this world and the next when we meet Allah.
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13 Aug 2023, 07:24

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Sometimes and not all the time!!!

وَلَنَبْلُوَنَّكُم بِشَيْءٍ مِّنَ الْخَوْفِ وَالْجُوعِ وَنَقْصٍ مِّنَ الْأَمْوَالِ وَالْأَنفُسِ وَالثَّمَرَاتِ ۗ وَبَشِّرِ الصَّابِرِينَ
{And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to those who are patient}
[Surah al-Baqarah (2): 155]

What did Allaah تعالى say in this Aayah?

Did He تعالى say that He will afflict you with fear, hunger, and loss in wealth and health all the time?

No! Rather, He تعالى said: {with something}, meaning, a little of each. A person will not be in fear all the time, it will not be constant, but rather it will vary. As Ibn Katheer said in his Tafseer: ❝He تعالى tests them sometimes (by providing them) with bounties and favors, and sometimes with the afflictions of fear and hunger.❞

So, a person may face fear every now and then, but the majority of the time he is safe and living in peace. A person sometimes may suffer pangs of hunger, he might not find anything to eat, but most of the time he eats to his fullest and is satisfied. Sometimes person falls sick, but most of the time he is healthy and well.

Allaah سبحانه وتعالى out of His infinite mercy did not fill your whole life with afflictions and troubles. If He تعالى took a thing from you, He تعالى gave you something else. Ponder at yourself, when you are afflicted, only one thing might be taken from you, but you still have so many good things with you for which you fail to thank Allaah. You might face one trouble in the whole day, but most of your day went well. We complain to Allaah for what we have lost, but we fail to thank Him for what we have. As Allaah تعالى said:

إِنَّ الْإِنسَانَ لِرَبِّهِ لَكَنُودٌ
{Verily! Man is ungrateful to his Lord}
[Surah al-`Aadiyaat (100): 6]

Al-Hasan al-Basree رحمه الله said: “al-Kanood”, meaning: ❝The one who is ungrateful. He who counts the calamities (that befall him), and he forgets Allaah’s favors (upon him).❞
📚 [Tafseer Ibn Katheer}
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42 - The student of knowledge lives by the Book (Qurʾān) and the Sunnah and its *sciences*
For they are for him like two wings to a bird, so be wary to not become broken winged.

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From the etiquettes of the student of knowledge is to live by the Book and the Sunnah, for they are like two wings for a bird, and a bird cannot fly except with two wings, if one of them breaks it cannot fly.
Therefore, do not pay attention to the Sunnah and ignore the Qurʾān, or pay attention to the Qurʾān and ignore the Sunnah.

Many students of knowledge give importance to the Sunnah and its explanations, its men and its terminology a complete importance.

However, if you were to ask im about a Āyah from the Book of Allāh, you would see that he is ignorant of it and this is a big mistake.
So it is a must that the Book and the Sunnah be two wings for you, O student of knowledge.

And there is a third important thing which is: the words of the scholars, do not neglect the words of the scholars and do not be heedless of it, because the scholars are more firmly grounded than you in knowledge and they possess from the principles of the legislation and its hidden wisdoms that you do not have.

[Explanation of the Book "Adornment of the Student of Knowledge of Shaykh Bakr Abū Zayd - Shaykh Muḥammad bin Ṣāliḥ al-ʿUthaymīn pg.249]
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If only Muslim husband’s remembered that their wives are someone's daughters too & if he treated them accordingly-there’d be less sisters complaining about their husbands !

Treat Your Wife How You Want Your Daughter to Be Treated

Shaykh Ibn 'Uthaymīn [رحمه الله] said:

❝…Know that when you deal and interact with your wife then it is mandatory that you think of a [scenario] where a man is the husband of your daughter. How does he treat her? Would you be pleased for him to treat her with harshness and sternness? The answer is no. Therefore, do NOT be content with treating the daughter of another person in a fashion that you would not be pleased for your daughter to be treated. This principle should be known by all people.❞

[Ash-Sharh Al-Mumti', (12/381)
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