First best is falling in love, second best is being in love, least best is falling out of love, But any of it is better than never having been in love. One morning, about four o'clock, I was driving my car just about as fast as I could. I thought, 'Why am I out on the highway this time of night?' I was miserable, and it all came to me: 'I'm falling in love with somebody I have no right to fall in love with. I can't fall in love with this girl, but it's just like a ring of fire.