From a woman's perspective, I believe the person behind this message should not need the insight of a 3rd person regarding how her partner should behave around her. She knows what she wants and how she wants it to be better than no one. There are certain characters that enjoy ''verbal abuse'' as part of their relationship/bant - thing I always find very strange psychologically, but I know it DOES exist. If you're not one of them - how do you end up being with someone like that?
Question is: Why are you in presence of such man? Why are you dating, keep dating or allowing this sort of relationship take off when you have/had signs of poor verbal usage from the beginning? (Because someone doesn't just ''start to curse'' after 1 year of being together). 🤷🏼♀️
This is why I insist ALL THE TIME to stop rushing women especially (but also men) into relationships just because ''it is trad to have a partner''. While it's true, it's almost impossible to make something work right away nowadays - blame it on the decaying culture and boomers raising narcissists and egoists for children.
It's extremely important for a woman (and man) to choose their life partner cautiously. It takes a ''6th sense'' nowadays to make that happen from the 1st time nowadays and it's OK if we give/get wrong impressions (as long as they're not intentional) - some people are not meant to be together and unfortunately it takes time for some couples to realize that. But once you have signs, STOP! Go into a relationship knowing what you want from your partner, communicate it, let them know what you can offer and make sure you both are in sync.
If you notice this doesn't work - do not continue. Do not involve yourself further to ''give chances''. Don't try to ''change someone''. People rarely change their personality and who they are because they're asked to as a condition to ''be loved''.
So shortly: You don't need a degree in Relationships to know what YOU want from your significant other, you need to be SINCERE to yourself and the other - put a stop when in order. Don't rush to intimacy, promises and other involving plans together if one of you has a doubt. Love, real love, is felt right away. There is a magnetic power that you will feel right away in the presence of the right one. I can attest to this out of personal experience ❤️ 🦁 @thegoldenone
Question is: Why are you in presence of such man? Why are you dating, keep dating or allowing this sort of relationship take off when you have/had signs of poor verbal usage from the beginning? (Because someone doesn't just ''start to curse'' after 1 year of being together). 🤷🏼♀️
This is why I insist ALL THE TIME to stop rushing women especially (but also men) into relationships just because ''it is trad to have a partner''. While it's true, it's almost impossible to make something work right away nowadays - blame it on the decaying culture and boomers raising narcissists and egoists for children.
It's extremely important for a woman (and man) to choose their life partner cautiously. It takes a ''6th sense'' nowadays to make that happen from the 1st time nowadays and it's OK if we give/get wrong impressions (as long as they're not intentional) - some people are not meant to be together and unfortunately it takes time for some couples to realize that. But once you have signs, STOP! Go into a relationship knowing what you want from your partner, communicate it, let them know what you can offer and make sure you both are in sync.
If you notice this doesn't work - do not continue. Do not involve yourself further to ''give chances''. Don't try to ''change someone''. People rarely change their personality and who they are because they're asked to as a condition to ''be loved''.
So shortly: You don't need a degree in Relationships to know what YOU want from your significant other, you need to be SINCERE to yourself and the other - put a stop when in order. Don't rush to intimacy, promises and other involving plans together if one of you has a doubt. Love, real love, is felt right away. There is a magnetic power that you will feel right away in the presence of the right one. I can attest to this out of personal experience ❤️ 🦁 @thegoldenone