Not a porn channel [LGBT+] 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

Just about 6,4K subscribers and counting. Hadn't ever thought that this channel would get that many.

But here's the deal: This was meant as a safe space for queer sexuality and to me it doesn't really feel like that.

Telegram moderation was bad for quite some time, now it seems to be getting better. Still not quize good though.

But this seems to be the problem on every site nowadays. Whenever a new one pops up as an alternative where those problems got fixed, they too end up failing with moderation sooner or later.

It has come to the point where i have come to associate porn with negativity. I want to be able to feel safe in avoiding the weird stuff and i want to see something that isn't all that fake industrial stuff.

Somehow the only place that has a decent grip on moderation without outright banning everything nsfw is reddit. Most of the things here came from reddit and pornhub anyways. However bad the image of reddit mods is, they still do their job most of the time.

The way a lot of people interact with media is very one sided. They speak in a way they would never do if it was face to face. I used to not understand why some people say that porn is objectifying people. Now i understand. Most of the stuff isn't even all that apealing irl.

And now some people have taken to calling their addiction "gooning" and treating it like a hobby. I get lookimg at it when you're bored but this ain't it.

If that is what porn is, then i'd rather not watch it at all. I prefer audio anyways. Though i can apreciate aestherically pleasing bodies. I am happy with my real sex life and i don't want it to make me have a negative connotation to that.

If porn only makes me feel negative then i don't want it. And i don't want to play moderator. It's stressing me out strongly.
And so i won't have any of it anymore. I think some of the subscribers here should think about that too.

I have found that the best thing i can have is quite boring sex in a stable relationship from time to time and that that can fulfil all my needs.

Guess that's all.