Yo, ssuup! The handsome man in the video is Madhava. Like Ed Sheeran's song 'perfect', a person is considered perfect when s/he is with someone who can appreciate him/her. Everyone wants to be treated like a king or queen, but for me the only one who can do that is me. The old adage says that not everything can be held, if it is a solid object it will be easy to hold it. However, if it chooses to become a liquid then you won't be able to hold it. Like, a bar of nicotine that continues to be inhaled until it runs out without residue. All one gets is the sweet taste at the end of that nicotine bar, and the smoke that corrodes one's insides. However, even though a nicotine bar can hurt oneself, someone still chooses it as an escape in all their problems.