• • • ✦ 𝒮hynchronity The Language Of The Mind That Doesn't Strive. Our identity, or ego, is the aspect of ourselves that tries to control and plan our present and future experiences. But as we all know, no matter how hard you try to control your life, you somehow change the plans. But on self-reflection, you find that these unexpected events help shape your life and allow for further inner growth. So what we think is interfering with our lives is actually our destiny and our unconscious conspiring against our rigid personality for the purpose of our evolution as individuals. As the softness of water gradually fades to the hardness of rock, so too does fate annihilate the rigidity of our conditioned identity.