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Love for Fish 🐟💕

When asked, "Why do you eat fish?" a young man replied, "Because I love fish."
To that, I said, "Oh, you don't love fish! That's why you caught it from the water, killed it, and cooked it. Don't tell me you love fish. You love yourself. You love the taste of fish. You caught it, killed it, and cooked it."

Much of what we call love is actually more like this "love for fish."
Look at a couple of young lovers. The boy and girl fall in love with each other. What does that mean? It means that he sees in his partner the one who, in his view, can satisfy all his physical and emotional needs. In the girl's view, her partner is the love of her life. But each is only concerned with their own needs. They don’t truly love each other. The partner becomes just a tool to satisfy needs. Much of what we call love is just "love for fish."
One philosopher said, "People are very mistaken when they think they give something because they love. But here’s the truth — you only love those to whom you give something." The point is: by giving something to you, I am giving a part of myself. To love is, first and foremost, to give, not to receive. 💖


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Learn to honour everyone ahead of you,they didn't get there by luck.

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Things that will make you re-think your life.

-Your choices define you more than your circumstances ever will.
-Happiness is a journey,not a destination.
-The greatest thing in life is not taking any risk at all.
-The more confident and independent you become,the more intimidating you will be to those who are not.
-Your material wealth won't make you a better or happier person.
-Your achievements and success won't matter on your deathbed.
-Your talent means nothing without consistent effort and practice.
-Nobody cares how difficult your life is,and you're the author of your life's story.
-Investing in yourself isn't selfish.it's the most worthwhile thing you can do.
-It's not what happens,it's how react that matters.
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Life wisdom
Never accept the definition of life from others,It is your life,define it yourself. 💯💪💪.

2025 rules:

-Avoid porn.Avoid anything that will trigger you to watch it.
-Exercise three to four times every week.
-Read 10 pages of either a self improvement book or a history book.
-Anger is not your friend.control it before it controls you.
-Always endeavor to stay neat 80% of the time.
-Never become a clown to impress anybody.most especially women.
-work before fun.
-smoking harms more than it pleases.Desist from it.
-Forgive but never forget the lesson learned.
-Have a vision,Have a purpose.Fight towards it.
-Do not allow yourself to be disrespected.
-Do not joke with your financial life.

"Here's to a fresh start filled with success and adventure."wishing you health,wealth and happiness in 2025."Let's welcome the year with open hearts and boundless energy."Everyday is a chance to start a new-HAPPY NEW YEAR.

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Reality of life in simple term
-The worst fight is between what you know is right and what you feel like doing.
-people start disliking you when they can't make you do what they want.
-Dont think that loud people are strong and quet people are weak.
-Feelings change all the time,but decisions you make last forever.
-most people don't really want you to be your best self,they want you to be what's best for them.
-It's not all about how the big your house is,it's about how happy your family is at home.
-Don't trust or love too much,because that too much can hurt you a lot.
-Sometimes you have to keep busy so you don't have time to feel sad or upset.

DEEP MESSAGES THAT LIFE SEND TO YOU!

1.Some times it's better to choose peace over being right and getting into arguments.

2.Being kind to others doesn't cost anything,and it can make someone's day better.

3.we can learn alot by listening and being quiet sometimes.

4.The kind of people we attract in our lives is often a reflection of the kind of person we are.

5.sometimes,our feelings and pain go away with time.

6.Trust is important in relationships because without it,we can't be open and loving.

7.It's important to have a soft heart and be caring,but also set boundaries to protect ourselves.

8.It's important to be patient and stick to our plans,even when things get tough.

9.We should never look down on others unless we're helping them or lifting them up.

10.It's important to say what we mean and honest with our words.

11.It's better to deal with our problems before they start affecting our happiness.

12.Sometimes the best advice is the one we ignore because it seems difficult,but it might be worthy considering.

Humans are never satisfied with what they have!You will realize that you have lost the moon while counting the stars.

Attitudes you need to stop when you are married

When married ,consider letting go of this attitudes.
1.possessiveness:Trust and respect boundaries.

2.Competition:Focus on teamwork and mutual support.

3.Critism:Practice constructive feedback and empathy.

4.Comparison:Appreciate your unique relationship.

5.Selfishness:Cultivate compromise and understanding.

6.Dishonest
7.Pride
8.Unforgiveness
9.Lack of accountability
10.Emotional unavailability:prioritize emotional intimacy.
11.Disrespect:Treat each other with kindness and respect.
12.Conditional love:Love unconditionally.
13.Unrealistic expectations:Communicate and set realistic goals.

1.Defensiveness:Listen actively and respond thoughtfully.
2.Passive-aggressiveness:Address issues directly.

1.Blame shifting:Take ownership of mistakes.
2.Control:Respect each other autonomy.
3.Resentment:Address issues before they escalate.
4.Lack of gratitude:Cultivate appreciation.

Replacing this attitudes with positive ones can strengthen your marriage.

Positive attitude to cultivate:
1.Empathy and understanding
2.Open communication
3.Mutual respect
4.Trust and loyalty
5.Compromise and flexibility
6.Forgiveness and letting go
7.Emotional intelligent
8.Teamwork and cooperation
9.Gratitude and appreciation
10.Unconditional love

Resources:
1.Marriage counseling or therapy
2.Relationship self-help book
3.Online forums and communities
4.Support groups for married couples
5.Personal growth and self improvement resources

For those who don't find theirs yet,may the Almighty bless you with the right person.God bless us all.
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Point to note;
The world is harsh on men during their building phase especially if they are from humble family.Obirins treat them like social lepers,they are not accorded any level of respect by society.

Kings,treasure your little beginning and keep using it as a spring board to your success.

Practice delayed gratification,starve your distractions,avoid committed relationships,and keep building.

Make short and long term goals,make mistakes and learn from them.keep pushing and evaluating your progress every quarterly.

Avoid B2B midfielders when you get to the top.

Things mentally strong peop do;

.They move on.They don't waste time feeling sorry for themselves.
.They embrace change.They welcome challenges.
.They stay happy.They don't waste energy on things they can't control.
.They are kind,fare,and unafraid to speak up.
.They are willing to take calculated risks.
.They celebrate other people's success,they don't resent that success.
.They move forward and don't dwell on the past.
.They learn from other's mistake.
.They don't hesitate about taking responsibility.
.They create their own definition of success.

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Signs of a loser:

1.Settling for far less than their potential.

2.Closed mind,Unwilling to change bad views.

3.Feeling sorry for themselves,playing the victim.

4.No passion or purpose in life.

5.Not learning new things.

6.wasting time on unimportant activities.

7.Burning bridges intead of building connections.

8.Being negative and complaining all the time.

9.Talking big but never following through.

Hard Truths of life that one must know

1.Stay away from those who stay close to everyone
2.Being alone is better than being used.
3.Money gives you the ability to walk away from people and situations you don't like.
4.I don't care if it's lonely at the top;it was lonely at the bottom.
5.loyalty is rare,if you find it,keep it.
6.Believe in yourself.
7.Jealousy is a lack of confidence.
8.Stop thinking everyone is your friend.
9.Don't forget how badly you wanted what you have now.Blessings are always coming to us.
10.Don't regret having a good heart,all good things come back and multiply.

You cannot CHANGE Yesterday, but you can do something TODAY that can change tomorrow!

It doesn't matter How you were BORN, that was yesterday.
It doesn't matter what happened last 5 years, the last 10 years. You may not be able to change that. But you can reposition yourself today.

You can make new decisions today, that will change what tomorrow will bring.
INVEST in your FUTURE. Refuse to be a Mental hobo! Refuse to end your Life on the sidewalk!
I believe in your FUTURE! There's a reason I believe in your future. I believe that if you hear these words, you will act on them and they will change your future. None of you was Born to be POOR!

You may have been poor BUT you were not Born to be poor! You may have been brought up poor, BUT you were not brought up to be POOR!
Understand this the definition of ADULTHOOD is RESPONSIBILITY. When you become an adult, you take responsibility for your fuuture.

Become Responsible! What do you have in yourself? There are many who cry for help and because there are no answers to their call for help, they feel the pangs and pains of neglect.

NO! Refuse to GIVE UP! Believe in what God made, GOD MADE YOU and HE NEVER MADE a FAILURE. Believe that GOD has a PURPOSE for your LIFE.
You may have been born as a parental accident but you are not a DIVINE ACCIDENT. God knew you were coming and he made sufficient provisions for you! There is a place for you in the world.

There are certain things You must do. There are things that are not in abundant supply, they are limited... one of them is TIME. Save TIME! Save IT! Keep TRACK of your TIME. The Bible says for us to redeem the time for the days are evil.
Life is not a GAME, YOU don't have extra time; therefore make everyday count! Improve yourself every day! Introduce something into your Life that counts.

CHOOSE to be a SUCCESS! Become inspiring! Distinguish yourself with a character with excellence! If you are a Musician be a musician with a difference! Become inspiring! Whatever you do, do it with excellence.

Put your best into what you do and change your World! Remember there is no Extra time. Whatever you do now, do it the Best way the FIRST TIME. Success is waiting for the man who says YES to SUCCESS!

SUCCESS is waiting for the man who plans for IT, who reaches out for IT! Who says I will wake up and he wakes up, who says I will read this book and He does. Who says I will go to school and he goes. SUCCESS is waiting for the Man who makes a DECISION.
There are a lot of you who spend so much time watching television 📺 Time is Important! Time is Important!! Change the Position, SAY to yourself I will be WATCHED. There are those who only think of designer perfume, designer clothes, designer shoes 👠 where are your own designs? CHALLENGE yourself for the future!

There's room for you! There's a place for you at the top! TRAIN your MIND and USE IT! Give yourself to a teacher. Give yourself to a TUTOR. Train yourself, train your MIND!
If you train your Mind, IT will be ready to deliver to you the right thoughts and ideas that will earn you COMMERCIAL VALUE. There is No poverty for the man, who has made an INVESTMENT in his MIND and his willing to ACT!

There's no hunger for the man who has trained his mind to think through every problem, to solve every problem. Train yourself, think through a problem, render solution and let men come to you for advice!

Decide to Be SMART! Decide to Be a problem solver. If you make that decision, that is what you will be. Problem solvers are in short supply in the world. There's a place for a man who decides to be excellent!

Distinguish yourself! Engage yourself in national issues. It is time to PUT your Best into what you do! GET BETTER and BIGGER! Be excellent👌

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OVERTHINKING
Def; Thinking too much.
That is exactly what it means to overthink. When you spend too much time thinking instead of taking action,when you analyze and repeat the same thoughts in your mind but do very little about it, You're overthinking.

The Reason Behind It
To be trapped by thoughts in your mind is torture. Being locked in and unable to escape the negativity is mental torture. The brain is tricky in that way. Telling it not to think about something rarely ever works. We naturally want certainty. We want control. We want concrete answers to the questions we have. When we don't get what we need to satisfy that urge,the brain goes into overdrive , coming up with scenarios of its own.

Why Overthinking Happens
Well,along with the ability to think,humans have another special ability called intuition.
Intuition is defined as the ability to immediately understand something without any need for conscious reasoning. Initiative thoughts don't come from the conscious mind rather it comes from the subconscious mind. If you've ever experienced those moments when it feels like your brain is arguing with itself ,this is the reason why.

The Cause
When you catch yourself overthinking ,there is always going to be a reason behind it. Something that sparked that train of thought. It is now up to you to identify what those triggers are.

You are not alone. Excessive thoughts are something a lot of people struggle with each day. We've all had moments where the brain seems to go a mile a minute,and it seems impossible to quiet all that noise that it's making.

Triggers
1.Social media. {We start comparisons} We often forget that not everything we see on social media is at it seems. The grass will always be greener than it is on the other side.


.............To Be Continued



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