thetalaba🗽

"According to the law of probabilities, the greater number of people you know who can help you at any given time, the more likely it is that you will know the right person at the right time and in the place to give you the help you need to move ahead more rapidly in your life".

Comparison is the thief of joy.

If you constantly compare yourself to others, you’ll never be happy.

You can push yourself, but avoid negative self-talk.

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Vaqt

Kunlar tez o‘tyabdi. Oylar tez o‘tyabdi. Hatto yillar o‘tganini sezmay qolyabsan. Har quyosh botganida maʼlum bir miqdorda umring kamayadi, yoshing o‘tadi. Agar mana shu vaqtingni qimmatli narsalarga sarflamayotgan ekansan, yillar o‘tsada o‘zingni hozirgi joyingda ko‘rasan, ortga qaraganingda, bekorchi vaqt o‘tkazganingning nadomatidan boshqa narsa topmaysan.

Mana shu oylar, yillar sening hayoting, hayotingning bir qismi. Menimcha hech kim o'zini, hayotining katta qismini kino ko'rib, instagramda reels ko'rib o'tkazgan inson sifatida ko'rishni xohlamasa kerak. Endi mana shu yoshlik davri, aynan hozirgi yillaring hayotingning eng muhim qismi, ya'ni buni munosib o'tkazishing, hayotingni munosib o'tkazishingda juda katta ahamiyatga ega.

Yillik, oylik, haftalik, hatto kunlik rejalaring bo‘lmasa, vaqting shunday, sen xohlamagan tarzda o‘tib ketadi. Rejalar bo‘lmasa vaqting ustidan nazoratni qo‘ldan chiqarasan, endi sen tasodifiy ishlar bilan vaqt o‘tkazib qo‘yasan. Va bu 90% holatda foydasiz narsa bo‘ladi. Vaqtingni qimmatli narsa bilan band qilmas ekansan, foydasiz narsa seni band qiladi. Shuning uchun ham, hozirgi qilayotgan ishingdan keyin, nima bilan shug‘ullanishing, to‘liq tafsiloti bilan aniq bo‘lishi kerak (qanday vazifa, qayerda, qachon va h.k.). Faqat kunlik vazifalar uchun emas, uzoq muddatli rejalarga ham shunday. Masalan, hozirgi mutolaadagi kitobdan keyin navbatdagi o‘qiladigan kitoblar, tartibi bilan aniq belgilangan bo‘lishi kerak.

Reja bilan yur, vaqtingni qadrla. Bu, albatta, hayoting sifatini sezilarli darajada yaxshilaydi.

@thetalabaa

Being overweight is hard. Being physically fit is hard. Choose your hard.

Being in debt is hard. Being financially disciplined is hard. Choose your hard.

Working a 9-5 until you're 65 is hard. Starting a business is hard. Choose your hard.

You see, life is never easy. It's hard by nature. And the only thing you have to do is choosing your hard.

So choose wisely.

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Peer Mentoring bor ekan, Introduction to Engineering kursi uchun majburiy. Katta kurslardan bittasi biriktirilib, har haftada yarim soatlik in-person yoki virtual meeting qilish kerak ekan. So'rovnoma (survey) da intended major va shu semester olayotgan Math class ni so'radi. Shunga qarab endi peer mentor biriktirishadi.