Dear, womer. Do not allow him to cosume you. If he does not fall, go to sleep. If he does not message, put you phone away and have a fantastic day anyway. If he tries to insinuate you do not need your friend now that you have him, spend more time with your friends. If he plays with your feelings constantly, walk away from him. If he forbids you from doing anything you love, walk away from him. If he demeans you or disrespects your being a girl and refuses to stop when you tell him it hurts, walk away from him. You live for yourself first. He is a secondary character in the story of your life. Do not allow him to turn you into a secondary character in your own book.