Easy example. Taylor swift, alongside most female pop singers, has built an entire career around her terrible choice in men. We treat that as an “ohh… me. I’m so zany” but it’s more so a “you really have a problem” like an alcohol addiction. The thing is that this sort of thing is one of the easiest ways to completely ruin your life given romantic and family relations is the most important element of most people’s lives. An entire lifetime of women will ruin their lives over this

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